I’m in an anti-bullshit kind of mood, just a warning
So I went on a curious stroll through the Destiel tag and I found a bunch of stuff that grossed me out so much, but I didn’t say anything and tag them in it. You know why? BECAUSE I’M NOT A JERK. So WHY are Destiel fans incapable of looking through the Destiew tag without posting in it?
- We do not care if you are offended by this tag
- We do not care if you want us all to get along
- We do not care if you think this tag is stupid
- We do not care about your opinions on why we dislike Destiel
- We have a separate tag, we tag our stuff properly, please stay away if it bothers you so much and stop trying to control us and the things we like/dislike
- We do not want to hear your unwanted pleas to “all just get along!”
- Please stop being so invasive and aggressive
- WE DO NOT CARE IF YOU DISLIKE THIS TAG. STAY OUT OF IT THEN, IF YOU FIND YOURSELF INCAPABLE OF LOOKING AT IT WITHOUT POSTING STUFF IN IT.
The only part of your argument that I would amend is the “why are Destiel fans” to “why are some Destiel fans”, other than that it’s perfect ;)
Every time I catch up on an episode of The Originals via 1channel I “happen” to check out the list of actors in the episode and I don’t know why but it always cracks me up to see “No Famous Actors”.
Apparently two people don’t like that I have a mind of my own and don’t need to be reminded of how beautiful/intelligent/strong I am to feel accomplished/equal.
Score for Team Thinking-For-Myself
gilmore girls re-watch → 1x05 ‘cinnamon’s wake’ [3/3]
I just love Babette and Morey’s relationship. I hear all this talk about how people (typically girls) want a relationship like the ones in TVD, Gossip Girl, OTH, and a number of other shows, but THIS relationship was so honest, loving, and full of humility. At the end of the day it wasn’t about having excitement and passion in their romance, they were just happy to have EACH OTHER. Being TOGETHER was what made the relationship exciting. And the fact that they were still crazy about each other, romantically/sexually/intellectually/artistically, at their age really made their marriage even more fascinating. Not to mention how passionate they were about making each other happy but remembering to take care of themselves as well, that’s the kind of balance that makes a relationship last.
Fuck wanting a marriage like the Weasley’s or another (similar) couple, I want a relationship like Babette and Morey <3
…and I typically shoot for anti-feminists posts when this subject is brought up.
The bottom line is this: Feminists crave a world where women can be women without someone telling them what to do at every turn. Ironically FEMINISTS are doing the same thing their “enemies” are by making demands and creating standards one has to fill before they can be a feminist (or just a “good” person in general).
I don’t need feminism because I do what I want and as long as it makes me happy (and doesn’t intentionally inflict harm/a disservice on others) everything is fine in my own little universe.
Basically I don’t like feminism because I don’t want a bunch of raging bitches (pun intended) telling me what to do to be happy/equal. I live my life the way I choose and am proud/happy about it.
And for those of you that expect anything different, well you can just suck my imaginary dick.
NOTE: I don’t follow anyone that goes for the feminism-cunnilingus power trip, sorry not sorry. I’m not about to put up with that bullshit on my dash.
In fact, everything you say about a male abuser you can say also about females: they have the same motivations (sexual gratification, power play) and fantasies. Female abusers go online and talk to each other in much the same language that male abusers do.
Since the early 1990s I have been trying to get female sexual abuse of children taken seriously. I wrote the first book about this “ultimate taboo”, and received a tirade of personal vitriol. Some people felt it detracted from the idea that abuse was simply an issue of male power. But I have received 800 calls from men and women who, as children, were sexually abused by women.
We know that at least half of those who are sexually abused are women, and we know that being abused is one indicator that you might become an abuser. We know, and accept nowadays, that some women physically abuse or neglect their children. We know they can cause the deaths of their children – but sexual assault?
Our refusal to acknowledge the existence of women paedophiles leaves children vulnerable and professionals in the dark. More children will be abused because we won’t be looking for it, we won’t see it when it is happening, and we won’t know how to stop it. Just as male paedophiles need effective treatment to alter their behaviour and stop them offending again and again, so do women paedophiles.
Perhaps the one good thing that can come out of this awful case is that people will sit up and look at the issue of female abusers. I would like the Government to fund research. We may find that only a tiny proportion of abuse is carried out by women – which is what we think now. We may find that it is a much greater proportion. Either way, don’t we need to know?
— Michelle Elliott (via keepcalmsmashfeminism)
Well, he sounds a lot like Soulless!Sam, doesn’t he? And I’ve always said that even if he was soulless, he actually was Sam, just without the filters and compassion that he learned from Dean.
So it makes sense to me that when he’s this angry with Dean, he’s using the same kind of cutting, bitter language that he got from Dean so often when he’d done something that disappointed Dean. I think Sam’s a lot like me—his line may be way farther out than a lot of people’s, but he does have one, and Dean’s finally crossed it.
And Sam doesn’t do anger the way Dean does; Sam’s anger is cold. Sam, as I have said for a very long time, actually is ruthless, where Dean can be ruthless when necessary. If Sam decides he’s going to hurt you, he’ll already know where your weak spots are, and he’ll strike at them very precisely and very quickly. He isn’t willing to go all out on Dean, because, well, he isn’t soulless any more and there’s an awful lot of history that’s telling him how much Dean loves him. It may have turned into something destructive since hell, but it wasn’t always, and Sam understands, where I think Dean doesn’t yet, that this has happened.
But he is still angry, and that’s why I think these snarky things are showing up—to remind Dean that things are not okay between them, so Dean doesn’t get to that “we talked so everythings okay now” place.
To the original questioner: You mean after Dean straight out told him that he was weird with girls and heavily implied that Sam is just not able to converse with normal people so he should just get himself off and hide in the background like he normally does, that when Sam telling Dean he could do yoga because he had also slept with someone bendy THAT makes Sam a bad guy. Look Dean didn’t react as if it was about Lisa. I didn’t notice him flinch or look downcast. He was implying that Sam couldn’t handle the job because how could Sam have any experience in yoga? I took Dean’s comment as ribbing Sam and trying to get under his skin and Sam ribbed him right back and didn’t let him under his skin.
If Sam had said, “You’re not the only one who slept with someone bendy AND I didn’t have to wipe their mind afterwards” it would have been being nasty and about Lisa. But simply making a statement that No, Sam is not incompetent with women when Dean implied he was. Eh! Dean’s precious feelings can take it. After all Dean thought it was HILARIOUS that Sam has had women he loved die on him in when Sam mentioned it to get into the abstinence group. Just the funniest thing Dean had heard. Ha ha, Jess died, Madison died, Ruby died, you really don’t have much luck with women Sammy, and it’s SOOO funny.
"Haha you were roofied by Becky, had to leave Amelia, and I killed Amy." Very funny.
Sam has not been “ruthless” with Dean in any way this season, I don’t understand what in the world would indicate that.
After what happened with Gadreel, Sam wanting to put distance between him and Dean is not “bad writing” or cruel.
Sam not trusting Dean, not wanting to be brothers until he’s earned that trust back is not cruel.
Expecting Sam to get over the gross, months long violation of his body and mind in a couple episodes when Dean has held grudges over less for seasons and expecting Sam to just forgive Dean, the person he trusted most in the world, for gaslighting Sam about said violation is cruel.
See THIS is what Sam has always feared, that Dean would begin to evolve into John 2.0, that his own big brother, whom he loves dearly and looks up to, will eventually become the very person that drove him away in the FIRST PLACE.
And so it occurs, Dean is becoming more and more like his father (this season more than ever before), constantly rubbing Sam the wrong way, throwing his relationship troubles in his face, acting like being family means that everything is okay when it’s obvious it’s not, and Sam is TIRED of it. Tired of the bullshit, tired of resorting back to how things were when they were growing up and John was forcing a dark life practically down their throats, seemingly under the impression that both boys were okay with it, that Dean’s eagerness to please him was a form of consent, that simply because Sam had not said “no” before that must mean he never would. Except the moment he does he instantly becomes an outcast, the “bad boy” Winchester that’s a disgrace to the family name. John told Sam that if were to “walk out that door” to not ever come back.
He’s been bullied since an early age into thinking that having a different opinion, or opposing certain aspects of “the family business”, meant you were automatically wrong, that you were a contorted representation of what it means to be a hunter and you were not capable of handling yourself. THAT’S why he ran away, THAT’S why his happiest memories were when he WASN’T with family, because his FAMILY often made him feel like shit. Even DEAN was a contributing factor, picking fights with him, making cracks about his face or habits, always holding it over Sam’s head that he (Dean) was “the better son”, it’s no wonder Sam wanted to leave so badly. He realized that outside of his family and the “business” he could be his own person, do his own thing, BE IMPORTANT. Because WITHOUT Dean Sam realizes that he can rise to the occasion, he can be a better version of himself, because he’s not constantly being knocked down for doing something different, for wanting to BE something different.
Dean’s hypocrisy is what drives me up the wall. I sympathize, I really do, he’s had a shitty childhood followed by nearly a decade of let-downs and it breaks my heart into millions of tiny pieces to think about how insecure and depressed his is because of it. But there’s a flip-side to that sympathy. Everything is all good and well as long as Sam “behaves”, meaning as long as they’re both “on the same page” (meaning DEAN’S) and Sam keeps his “trap shut”, it’s all swell-dandy fine. But the SECOND that Sam tries to do something on his own, WITHOUT DEAN, that contradicts what Dean would do, all hell breaks loose, and Dean resorts to his John 2.0 behavior and degrades Sam’s opinion in an attempt to thwart him.
Dean’s use of the “we’re family” argument has evolved from a reason to an excuse, and it’s not going to cut it anymore. Not for Sam.
So Sam is not OOC. Sam is TIRED. He’s tired of having to relive his childhood all over again, except Dean is the new “John”. He’s tired of people (mostly Dean) trying to make him feel like his opinions don’t matter, like his personality is warped and he’s a hopeless mess that can never stand on his own two feet. He’s tired of hoping for things to get better but ending up disappointed (again). He’s tired of keeping silent and feeling like he can’t say what he feels or thinks, tired of putting up with everyone else’s crap (especially Dean’s) and made to feel like he has to “take it” and not object. He was even too tired to fight back against Becky like he should have when he realized that she was planning on raping him while he was under the influence of a love potion. He realized it would be a useless effort to make a fuss, she wouldn’t listen to him, wouldn’t stop her ridiculous over-the-top fangirl antics, not to mention he couldn’t exactly press charges considering his (then) Most Wanted status.
HE’S TOO DAMN TIRED
I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again, SAM WINCHESTER DOES NOT HAVE TO APOLOGIZE FOR SHIT
Reblog this if you post/reblog any of the following:
Ouran High School Host Club
The Lord of The Rings/The Hobbit/Tolkien of any kind really
Percy Jackson & The Olympians/Heroes of Olympus
The Kane Chronicles
The Hunger Games
Avatar: The Last Airbender
Spirk (Spock/ Kirk)
Robert Downey Jr.
There are more but there’s an overview for you ;)
Why do destielers follow me?
I’m only going to piss you off with my anti-Destiel rants you know
Or is this masochism at work?
Young Johnny Depp and Leonardo DiCaprio in What’s Eating Gilbert Grape
I literally posted this like yesterday afternoon it got so many notes so quickly
because its leo and johnny
it’s like somebody told leo that he’d never win an oscar and johnny is like “shhhh me neither it’s ok”
i really fucking love this movie
So no one is going to comment on the fact that Johnny looks like teen!Snape?
You know why I think Dean needs Sam the most? Because Sam was never afraid to go after what he wanted. Sam was never afraid to be who he was, to love what he loved, and chase after his dreams of being a lawyer.
While they were growing up Sam knew that the hunter life was flawed, so he tried to maintain a balanced way of thinking, realizing that there was more to life than constantly saving someone. He went out and tried to enjoy those moments of carelessness, and when he got home Dean unknowingly attempted to soak up that sense of freedom.
Sam didn’t realize that he was always teaching his brother how to be a better person, how to treat people and how to be fair. He never realized that the ONE PERSON that Dean looked up to the most….was his little brother.
Sam once said that he wanted to be just like Dean, but I think it’s DEAN that wants to be like Sam.
So whether you’re a Wincest shipper, or just a devoted supporter of Team Winchester, you can NEVER deny that the ONLY REASON that Dean has had such great character development…..is because of Sam <3
Hey guys? You know that line from Tell Tales? Like THE LINE? The SAM line that we all love so much? Well it goes like this:
"Dean, what do you think you’re doing?"
IT DOES NOT GO LIKE THIS:
"Dean what are you doing?"
Spread the word please, it would mean a great deal.
Sincerely, someone who is getting sick of people misquoting this show